Our Uniqueness - Phase system ™
Members join the site at different times. You may match with someone with which they have begun the process, or are nearing its end. This is why those numbers are there: the Phase number shows the highest level each member has reached. When you match with another member, you can immediately see how far along they have already gone.
Each phase is designed with recommendations and permissions that are in the hands of the women in the pair. Pictures become clear to see, and conversations open up only when the woman has decided that she will move to the next phase.
In each phase:
- We have listed a minimum suggested time to remain in the phase which is up to members’ discretion
- The man’s pictures and videos will be clear for the woman to see
- The woman decides if and when the pair moves to the next phase
- While actively engaged in a messaging session, neither member can engage in another conversation on the site
- Members may search for other matches
- Members may ‘unmatch’ each other
At this Phase:
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Woman’s pictures blurred - Text messaging possible
- Video chat disabled
- Displayed in other members’ searches
SUGGESTED TIMEFRAME: 2 WEEKS
At this Phase:
- Woman’s pictures and videos clear to view
- Text messaging possible
- Video chat disabled
- Displayed in other members’ searches
SUGGESTED TIMEFRAME: 2 WEEKS
At this Phase:
- Text messaging as well as Audio/Video chat possible
- Neither member displayed in other members’ searches
SUGGESTED TIMEFRAME: 4 WEEKS
At this Phase:
- Time for pair to arrange to meet in person
- Text messaging as well as Audio/Video chat possible
- Neither member displayed in other members’ searches
NO SUGGESTED TIMEFRAME
To make sure that your meeting is blessed and safe, we have a special resource prepared for you to view. In addition, members may stay in this phase as long as they need to, preparing by learning from our courses and resources.
Members also have access to a directory of mosques so they may find chaperone volunteers and locations to meet from the mosque closest to their location. We are always making new connections with mosques, so if your mosque is not yet listed, we can help find a chaperone.
At this Phase:
- Pair arranges with our partner mosque to perform the marriage
- Both members continue to take courses and view resources that will help them succeed in their marriage
- Pair keeps connected with Khadijah Elite ™ through the website and special events to support their new marriage as it grows
At this Phase:
- Woman’s pictures blurred
- Text messaging possible
- Video chat disabled
- Displayed in other members’ searches
SUGGESTED TIMEFRAME: 2 WEEKS
At this Phase:
- Woman’s pictures and videos clear to view
- Text messaging possible
- Video chat disabled
- Displayed in other members’ searches
SUGGESTED TIMEFRAME: 2 WEEKS
At this Phase:
- Text messaging as well as Audio/Video chat possible
- Neither member displayed in other members’ searches
SUGGESTED TIMEFRAME: 4 WEEKS
At this Phase:
- Time for pair to arrange to meet in person
- Text messaging as well as Audio/Video chat possible
- Neither member displayed in other members’ searches
NO SUGGESTED TIMEFRAME
To make sure that your meeting is blessed and safe, we have a special resource prepared for you to view. In addition, members may stay in this phase as long as they need to, preparing by learning from our courses and resources.
Members also have access to a directory of mosques so they may find chaperone volunteers and locations to meet from the mosque closest to their location. We are always making new connections with mosques, so if your mosque is not yet listed, we can help find a chaperone.
At this Phase:
- Pair arranges with our partner mosque to perform the marriage
- Both members continue to take courses and view resources that will help them succeed in their marriage
- Pair keeps connected with Khadijah Elite ™ through the website and special events to support their new marriage as it grows